{"id":71975,"date":"2025-12-04T12:55:44","date_gmt":"2025-12-04T09:55:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/?p=71975"},"modified":"2025-12-04T12:55:45","modified_gmt":"2025-12-04T09:55:45","slug":"efeler-belediyesinden-hayat-arkadasini-ve-yakinlarini-kaybedenlere-kotu-haber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/?p=71975","title":{"rendered":"Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nden hayat arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ve yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 kaybedenlere k\u00f6t\u00fc haber"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ayd\u0131n\u2019\u0131n Efeler il\u00e7esinde Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nin ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 karar ile y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koymu\u015f \u00e7iftlerin \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da yan yana mezarlarda yatmak istemesi reddedildi. Ayd\u0131n\u2019da ya\u015fayan ve 70 y\u0131l ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyan S\u00fczen \u00e7iftinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 karara tepki g\u00f6stererek Efeler Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 An\u0131l Yeti\u015fkin\u2019e &#8220;Y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyup \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da yan yana mezarlarda yatmak isteyen \u00e7iftlerin bu masum iste\u011fini geri \u00e7evirmeyin&#8221; \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131nda bulundular.<\/p>\n<p>Edinilen bilgiye g\u00f6re; Bodrum\u2019un G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fck Mahallesi\u2019nde 1935 y\u0131l\u0131nda do\u011fan Y\u0131lmaz S\u00fczen ile 1939 y\u0131l\u0131nda do\u011fan Fatma S\u00fczen 1955 y\u0131l\u0131nda birbirlerini \u00e7ok sevip ka\u00e7arak evlendiler. O d\u00f6nem 20 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan Y\u0131lmaz S\u00fczen ile 16 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan Fatma S\u00fczen \u00e7ifti, daha sonra \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in Ayd\u0131n\u2019a gelip yerle\u015fti. Ayd\u0131n Efeler il\u00e7esi Kurtulu\u015f Mahallesi\u2019nde ikamet eden Y\u0131lmaz-Fatma S\u00fczen \u00e7iftinin 70 y\u0131l ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyup mutlu bir evlilikleri ve biri k\u0131z 3 de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Vasiyet ettiler, Efeler Belediyesi engel oldu&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>Biri 90, di\u011feri 86 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan Y\u0131lmaz-Fatma S\u00fczen \u00e7ifti, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 toplay\u0131p kendilerinin yan yana g\u00f6m\u00fclmesini vasiyet ederek mezar paras\u0131n\u0131 da haz\u0131rlad\u0131. \u00c7iftlerden Y\u0131lmaz S\u00fczen ge\u00e7en hafta 90 ya\u015f\u0131nda hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybedince Kemer Mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2019na defnedildi. S\u00fczen \u00e7iftinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 anne-babas\u0131n\u0131n vasiyeti \u00fczerine defin i\u015flemleri s\u0131ras\u0131nda babas\u0131 ile annesinin yan yana mezarlarda g\u00f6m\u00fclmesi i\u00e7in Efeler Belediyesi\u2019ne m\u00fcracaat edip 2 mezar \u00fccretini birlikte yat\u0131rmak istedi. Ancak Efeler Belediyesi Mezarl\u0131klar M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ekipleri kar\u0131-koca da olsa yan yana mezar vermediklerini s\u00f6yleyince hem geride kalan Fatma S\u00fczen hem de \u00e7iftin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. 86 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki ve \u00e7e\u015fitli rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 bulunan kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fu anda kocas\u0131 ile ayn\u0131 mezarda yatabilmesi i\u00e7in 5 y\u0131l i\u00e7inde \u00f6lmemesi gerekti\u011fi, 5 y\u0131ldan \u00f6nce hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybeder ise kocas\u0131 ile yan yana ya da ayn\u0131 mezarda yatamayaca\u011f\u0131 belirtildi.<\/p>\n<p>Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nden ilgin\u00e7 savunma<br \/>\n<br \/>Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nin defin ve cenaze hizmetleri vermeyi son verece\u011fi bunun yan\u0131nda mezarl\u0131k yeri konusunda s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in akrabal\u0131k ba\u011f\u0131 ne olursa olsun ayn\u0131 anda vefat etmedikleri s\u00fcrece hi\u00e7bir kimseyi yan yana defnetmeme karar\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 belirtildi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;70 y\u0131l ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koydular, \u00f6l\u00fcnce yan yana yatamayacaklar&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>Bir hafta \u00f6nce topra\u011fa verdikleri babalar\u0131n\u0131n mezar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131klama yapan S\u00fczen \u00e7iftinin k\u0131zlar\u0131 Zerrin G\u00fclay, &#8220;Annem ile babam 1955 y\u0131l\u0131ndan bu yana beraberler. 70 y\u0131l s\u00fcren \u00e7ok mutlu bir evlilikleri vard\u0131. Vasiyetleri mezarda da yan olmakt\u0131. Ancak Efeler Belediyesi maalesef ald\u0131klar\u0131 ilgin\u00e7 bir karar ile anne-babam\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131r\u0131yor. Mezarl\u0131kta bir s\u00fcr\u00fc aile mezar\u0131 var. Bu \u00e7ifte standart niye? Biz anlayamad\u0131k&#8221; diyerek Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 An\u0131l Yeti\u015fkin\u2019in birbirlerini seven insanlar\u0131 ay\u0131rmamas\u0131n\u0131 istedi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Birbirini sevip bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyanlar\u0131 ay\u0131rmak \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 olay\u0131n \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nin B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi ile ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunun faturas\u0131n\u0131 vatanda\u015fa kesmesinin \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc oldu\u011funu belirten Erg\u00fcn G\u00fclay ise &#8220;Evlenip de bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyan insanlar\u0131 ay\u0131rmak ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc bir \u015fey. Bu insanlar yan yana g\u00f6m\u00fclmek ister. Ayr\u0131lmak istemezler. Efeler Belediyesi defin ve cenaze i\u015flerini B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi\u2019ne devredecekmi\u015f. Kendi aralar\u0131nda olan sorunu bize yans\u0131t\u0131yorlar. \u2018Paras\u0131n\u0131 verelim yan yana olsun\u2019 dedik \u2018olmaz\u2019 dediler.  Belediyeler ni\u00e7in vard\u0131r, amme hizmeti i\u00e7in vatanda\u015fa hizmet i\u00e7in. \u2018Yan yana mezar vermiyoruz\u2019 dediler. Ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131k&#8221; diyerek Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nin tutumuna tepki g\u00f6sterdi.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;70 y\u0131l birlikte ya\u015fam\u0131\u015flar, yan yana bir mezarlar\u0131 bile olmad\u0131&#8221;<br \/>\n<br \/>Evlili\u011fin ve aile b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6neminin her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn artt\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde e\u015flerin mezarlar\u0131n\u0131n ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok garip buldu\u011funu belirten Zerrin G\u00fclay ise &#8220;70 y\u0131l evli kalan annem babam birlikte yan yana yatmak istediler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc 70 y\u0131l birlikte olmu\u015flar. Bundan sonra da birlikte olmak istediler. Maalesef yan yana mezar vermediler. Mezarl\u0131\u011fa gezip dola\u015ft\u0131k. Pek \u00e7ok aile yan yana defnedilmi\u015f. Verdiklerine veriyorlar ama bizimkilere vermediler. Annem \u00e7ok \u00fczg\u00fcn kabullenemiyor. Yan\u0131nda olsayd\u0131m diye \u00e7ok istedi. \u00d6nceden verildi\u011fini biliyordu. Mezarl\u0131\u011fa ziyarete getirdim. Mezar\u0131n yan\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015f olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc. \u2018Ben nereye yataca\u011f\u0131m\u2019 diye sorudu. \u00c7ok \u00fczg\u00fcn\u00fcz&#8221; diye konu\u015ftu.<br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ayd\u0131n\u2019\u0131n Efeler il\u00e7esinde Efeler Belediyesi\u2019nin ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 karar ile y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koymu\u015f \u00e7iftlerin \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da yan yana mezarlarda yatmak istemesi reddedildi. Ayd\u0131n\u2019da ya\u015fayan ve 70 y\u0131l ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyan S\u00fczen \u00e7iftinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 karara tepki g\u00f6stererek Efeler Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 An\u0131l Yeti\u015fkin\u2019e &#8220;Y\u0131llarca ayn\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f koyup \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da yan yana mezarlarda yatmak&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":71976,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[123],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71975","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71975","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=71975"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71975\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":71977,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71975\/revisions\/71977"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/71976"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=71975"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=71975"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=71975"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}