\u00c7ocuklarda erken ya\u015flarda ya\u015fanan duygusal zorluklar, bazen sessiz bir i\u00e7e kapan\u0131\u015fla, bazen ise d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck davran\u0131\u015fsal tepkilerle kendini g\u00f6sterebilir. T\u0131rnak yeme, alt \u0131slatma, \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131, uyku sorunlar\u0131 gibi davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 stresin ve bask\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131mas\u0131 olabilir.
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Psikolog Eda Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, modern ya\u015fam\u0131n getirdi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fimlerin, aile yap\u0131s\u0131ndaki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmlerin, dijitalle\u015fme ve akademik bask\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na daha k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda a\u011f\u0131r duygusal y\u00fckler bindirdi\u011fini, bu y\u00fcklerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda \u00e7e\u015fitli bozulmalara, uyum sorunlar\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Kendini anlatamayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla konu\u015ftu\u011funu belirten Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, “T\u0131rnak yeme, alt \u0131slatma, \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131, uyku sorunlar\u0131 gibi davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman “ge\u00e7ici bir d\u00f6nem” olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclse de, bunlar \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 stresin ve bask\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131mas\u0131 olabilir. \u0130yile\u015ftirici g\u00fc\u00e7 ailenin elindedir” dedi.
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Ac\u0131badem Kent Hastanesi\u2019nden Klinik Psikolog Eda Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu \u00e7ocuklu\u011fun, bireyin sosyal, duygusal ve bili\u015fle ilgili geli\u015fiminin temelinin at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 kritik bir d\u00f6nem oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Bu d\u00f6nemde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n, geli\u015fimin do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmaktan \u00f6te, altta yatan psikolojik zorlanmalar\u0131n i\u015fareti olabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, “S\u00fcreklilik g\u00f6steren ve i\u015flevselli\u011fi bozan davran\u0131\u015flar genellikle kayg\u0131, stres, travma ve g\u00fcvensizlik gibi duygularla yak\u0131ndan ili\u015fkilidir. \u00c7ocuklar her zaman duygular\u0131n\u0131 kelimelerle ifade edemezler.” diyerek \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:
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“\u00d6zellikle erken ya\u015flarda ya\u015fanan duygusal zorluklar, bazen sessiz bir i\u00e7e kapan\u0131\u015fla, bazen ise d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck davran\u0131\u015fsal tepkilerle kendini g\u00f6sterebilir. Sald\u0131rganl\u0131k bu tepkilerden biridir. Vurma, ba\u011f\u0131rma, e\u015fya f\u0131rlatma gibi fiziksel ya da s\u00f6zel agresyonlar, genellikle bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00f6fkenin veya ev i\u00e7i \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n d\u0131\u015fa vurumudur. Bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygular\u0131n\u0131 kontrol edemedi\u011fi anlarda kendini g\u00f6sterir. Bir di\u011feri i\u00e7e kapanmad\u0131r. Sosyal ortamlardan uzak durmak, konu\u015fmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak ya da arkada\u015f edinmekte zorlanmak gibi durumlar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi ve sosyal kayg\u0131ya i\u015faret eder. Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131, aile i\u00e7i ilgisizlik veya y\u00fcksek akademik beklentiler bu durumu tetikleyebilir. Bir di\u011fer tepki olarak regresif davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 (\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n gerisinde davran\u0131\u015flar sergilemesi) g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Alt \u0131slatma (en\u00fcrezis), parmak emme gibi ya\u015fa uygun olmayan davran\u0131\u015flar; ta\u015f\u0131nma, bo\u015fanma, yeni karde\u015fin do\u011fumu gibi ya\u015fam olaylar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 verilen tepkilerdir. Tekrarlay\u0131c\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar olarak tan\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z t\u0131rnak yeme, sa\u00e7 \u00e7ekme, kalem \u0131s\u0131rma gibi davran\u0131\u015flar, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman gerginlik ve ruhsal huzursuzlu\u011fun d\u0131\u015favurumudur. \u00d6zellikle s\u0131nav d\u00f6nemi gibi stresli zamanlarda art\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterebilir.”<\/p>\n
\u0130yile\u015ftirici g\u00fc\u00e7; aile
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\u00d6te yandan, \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojik iyi olu\u015funu \u015fekillendiren en temel unsurun, aile ortam\u0131 oldu\u011funu ifade eden Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, “Sevgi dolu, tutarl\u0131 ve destekleyici bir aile yap\u0131s\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendini de\u011ferli hissetmesini sa\u011flar.” dedi. Ailenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 fark ederek i\u015fe ba\u015flamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini kaydeden Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, ebeveynlere “tehditkar olmay\u0131n, pozitif disiplin” uygulay\u0131n \u00f6nerisinde bulundu, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:
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“\u00c7ocu\u011fun neye ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, onunla a\u00e7\u0131k ve empatik bir ileti\u015fim kurmak gerekir. Ceza odakl\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlar yerine, olumlu peki\u015ftirme ve problem \u00e7\u00f6zme stratejileri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenlemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun verilen \u00f6devi, g\u00f6revi yapmay\u0131 s\u00fcrekli ertelemesi durumunda \u2018Bir daha yapmazsan tabletini al\u0131r\u0131m!\u2019 gibi tehditk\u00e2r bir yakla\u015f\u0131m yerine, \u2018\u00d6devini bitirdi\u011finde birlikte en sevdi\u011fin oyunu oynayabiliriz.\u2019 gibi olumlu bir peki\u015ftirme yap\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun motivasyonunu art\u0131r\u0131r. Pozitif disiplin, \u00e7ocuklara hem s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyar hem de bu s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde nas\u0131l hareket edeceklerini \u00f6\u011fretir. Bu yakla\u015f\u0131m sayesinde \u00e7ocuklar, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlamay\u0131, sorumluluk almay\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde ifade etmeyi \u00f6\u011frenirler.”
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\u00c7ocuklarda erken ya\u015flarda ya\u015fanan duygusal zorluklar, bazen sessiz bir i\u00e7e kapan\u0131\u015fla, bazen ise d\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fck davran\u0131\u015fsal tepkilerle kendini g\u00f6sterebilir. T\u0131rnak yeme, alt \u0131slatma, \u00f6fke patlamalar\u0131, uyku sorunlar\u0131 gibi davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 stresin ve bask\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131mas\u0131 olabilir. Psikolog Eda Kalayc\u0131o\u011flu, modern ya\u015fam\u0131n getirdi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fimlerin, aile yap\u0131s\u0131ndaki d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmlerin, dijitalle\u015fme ve akademik bask\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":47501,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47500","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=47500"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":47502,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47500\/revisions\/47502"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/47501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=47500"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=47500"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.egemtv.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=47500"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}